Empathy: caring enough, noticing and giving deference to others pain.
Wisdom/Honor/Awareness: understanding others pain, knowing ones roles and doing the right thing in deference to ones own pain.
Pride/Hubris/Ego: giving deference to ones own pain.
Courage: the willingness to test the limits of ones own understanding, to face ones fears.
Honesty: the willingness to consider that perhaps one is not right.
Honor: is doing the right thing, no matter the cost.
Awareness: not only accepting everyone, understanding them.